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💐 How Many Guests Should You Really Invite?

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The Ultimate Wedfluencer Guide to Your Guest List

(Plus 2026 Décor Trends You’ll Actually Want to Post About)


By: Ever After by Layla

✨ Featured on Wedfluencer




💭 Introduction


Planning your wedding is a total dream — until you start the guest list. Suddenly, it’s less Pinterest perfect and more Google Sheets panic. Who makes the cut? How many people should you invite?


Your guest list sets the entire mood — from the venue and budget to the content you’ll capture. Whether you’re planning an intimate backyard soirée or a full-blown ballroom celebration, finding that sweet spot is part math, part heart, and part Wedfluencer strategy.




👰‍♀️ What’s “Just Right”?


There’s no one-size-fits-all number — your guest list is personal. But here’s the quick breakdown:


  • 💕 Intimate Wedding: 20–50 guests — for micro-wedding vibes, cozy dinners, or destination elopements.

  • Medium Wedding: 75–120 guests — balanced, manageable, and full of energy.

  • 💃 Large Wedding: 150+ guests — perfect for big families, friend groups, and content-worthy dance floors.


Bottom line: Pick a number that fits your space, budget, and energy.


💡 Wedfluencer Tip: Create a Vision Video on Wedfluencer to visualize your crowd size and vibe — AI can help you match with the perfect venue and event team.




✅ Guest List Dos


✔️ Set your budget first. Every extra guest means more plates, chairs, and florals.
✔️ Check your venue’s limits. Comfort > crowding.
✔️ Start early. Your list impacts almost every vendor choice.
✔️ Prioritize guest experience. Smaller weddings = deeper connections. Bigger = party energy.
✔️ Make an A/B list. A-list first, then fill in from the B-list if space allows.


💡 Wedfluencer Tip: Use the Guest Tracker Tool on Wedfluencer to organize your list, RSVPs, and seating plan — no spreadsheets needed.




🚫 Guest List Don’ts


❌ Don’t invite out of guilt — every seat should have meaning.
❌ Don’t give in to family or friend pressure.
❌ Don’t get messy with plus-ones — keep your rule consistent.
❌ Don’t over-invite beyond venue capacity.
❌ Don’t let the list become a stress spiral — boundaries are bridal self-care.


💡 Wedfluencer Tip: Share a Vision Post explaining your guest size — it sets clear expectations and keeps followers in the loop (while you earn from your content!).




✨ 2025 Wedding Décor Trends You’ll Want to Post About


This year’s décor is all about intention, minimalism, and visual storytelling. Think Pinterest-core, but make it personal.


💚 Soft Sage + White Minimalism — airy, calming, timeless.
🌿 Romantic Garden Vibes — lush florals and secret-garden energy.
💡 Statement Lighting — chandeliers, candle clusters, warm glows.
🌸 Monochrome Florals — one color, multiple textures = clean & modern.
🪞 Personalized Welcome Signs — luxe fonts, subtle sparkle, Disney-inspired whimsy.
♻️ Sustainable Décor — thrifted finds, reusable setups, eco-conscious details.
🛋️ Lounge Corners — cozy chic spots for guests (and content!).
🎻 Bridgerton-Inspired Romance — vintage elegance meets modern love.
📸 Interactive Guest Experiences — flower bars, photobooths, custom cocktails.
Modern Fairytale Themes — whimsical luxe that tells your story.


💡 Wedfluencer Tip: Post a Décor Vision Video of your top 3 looks — Wedfluencer AI can connect you with vendors who bring that aesthetic to life.




💭 Final Thoughts


Guest lists are tricky — but they shouldn’t steal your joy. Whether you’re celebrating with 50 or 500, what matters most is how your day feels.


Choose décor that reflects your story, trends that make you smile, and guests who truly belong there.


💡 Wedfluencer Tip: Document the journey — from the first draft of your guest list to the final headcount, every step is content future brides will love.




💌 Bottom Line


Your guest list isn’t just numbers — it’s the heart of your celebration.
Stay intentional, stay authentic, and let your wedding reflect the real you.


By: Ever After by Layla


Featured on Wedfluencer — where brides become creators and every “I do” becomes content that inspires.


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